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✅ Understand your parents through a new lens — make sense of their behaviour without losing sight of your own truth
✅ Grieve what you didn’t receive — process the painful parts of your childhood
✅ Accept your story and your feelings — find peace with the parenting you experienced while acknowledging its impact
✅ Become your own “good enough” parent — learn the essential life skills of self-soothing, self-validation, and creating inner safety
✅ Rebuild self-trust - reconnect with your intuition, authenticity, and self-connection
"This book is a gift for anyone who has felt unseen, unloved or 'too much' in their family. Sian names what so many of us have lived through, and more importantly, shows us the way to heal and thrive beyond it."
- Anna Runkle
If you’ve ever found yourself wondering about how the relationship with your parent(s) has affected you and your life, this book is for you.
You’ll learn how to heal the hidden wounds of growing up in a home that looked fine from the outside, but that left you feeling unseen, misunderstood, or alone.
If your parents weren’t able to meet your emotional needs, this book will help you understand what happened, so that you can heal and move forward.
"I have the audio version and I have almost finished it on day one. I absolutely love it. I feel so seen"
I'm Sian Morgan-Crossley. A psychotherapist and mother of two from London. Much of my work has been shaped by my own childhood, one that appeared fine on the outside but felt disconnected, lonely, and dysfunctional on the inside. 
Growing up with emotionally immature parents doesn’t stay in the past - it lives on in the way we think, feel about who we are, and connect with other people.
I wrote this book because I want people to stop feeling like something is wrong with them, and start giving themselves the care, encouragement, and security that their parents were unable to provide.
"It's a wonderful, easy to read and easy-to-work-through book. It's one thing acknowledging what was missing, but another thing to have the tools to heal and stop it affecting you today"